If you would like to create something new in your life, look first at the identity you have that stands in the way of your success.
When I was a dating coach, I had to kill that identity so that I could create myself as an entrepreneur coach.
Since then, I have been through multiple deaths, followed by the birth of new created identities.
In order for a new identity to come forth, space must first be created for its emergence.
In light of this, people often say things like:
“I need to let my identity die”
Inadvertently, this can actually be a disempowering statement in that it does not provide agency available in the death of that identity. Waiting for something to die places both a time barrier and gap of will between you and the action that would create the space.
Instead, try speaking, “I am killing this identity” .
Feel the immediacy in it.
Feel the agency and power in it.
This kind of speaking grants you all of your agency and provides access to rapid, step-change evolution of your being.
What is the new identity that you must generate to reach your next level of success?
Loving you, JPM
