When you want to see yourself in a new way, for example as more bold or beautiful than you currently perceive yourself to be, I suggest you do something paradoxical.
First, look for this trait in others.
Then, once you see it, acknowledge them for it. Tell them exactly what you see and what you love about it.
Acknowledgement through speaking makes the energy of the trait come alive in you.
By telling people what you love about them (instead of comparing yourself as not enough), in turn, will actually produce the trait within you too.
Loving you, JP