We like people who have integrity. We like them because we can trust and depend on them. We feel safe around them and we can achieve things with them. We like to feel safe and achieve things, and so we like people with integrity. Integrity makes you likable. For a person who ‘needs to beRead More
If there is anywhere I don’t feel completely free, then it’s in my being free from the need to be liked by others. Likability is my Achilles heel. The truth is, there is an aspect of myself that wants everyone to like me. While this aspect still often runs the show, in recent years I’veRead More
At the start of my recent Creating Love & Power event in Santa Monica – which turned out to be an intimate 4-day dialogue between myself and about two dozen others sat in a circle inside a gorgeous ballroom with giant windows overlooking the city, mountains, and Pacific ocean – I told everyone there thatRead More
“You get good at what you do.” That was the thought in my head as the race started and within the first mile, I was at the rear of the pack of 200 or so runners. I had still over 25 miles to go and my legs were already hurting. They were hurting because aRead More
There are four women I’d like to introduce you to. The first three women are dealing with internal struggles and/or a lack of power. They are anxious and/or unable to create what they want in the world. The fourth woman can already see through the distinction I am going to share with you. As aRead More
Every day I rise before the sun and sit out on our deck in the starlight with my notebook and pen. This time while my wife and sons are still asleep is golden; an opportunity to sit undisturbed and create who I will be for them and the world throughout the day ahead. Creating andRead More
If you would like to create something new in your life, look first at the identity you have that stands in the way of your success. When I was a dating coach, I had to kill that identity so that I could create myself as an entrepreneur coach. Since then, I have been through multipleRead More
To experience total freedom in your life, you must be willing to transcend the ideas that have empowered your growth up to now. One such idea is that in order to be free of an experience, you must own it. Ownership, as an experience, is an expression of a desire for control. Ownership, we canRead More
Hate is anger Anger is hurt Hurt is love Hate is love The only reason a person ever feels angry is because they are hurting. The only reason a person ever hurts is because they love. A person that is hating on people is filled with the same passion as a person that is experiencingRead More
When I make an investment, I go all in. If you follow my work you will know that it’s no secret that I take a high risk, high reward path in the growth of my business and my life. I do this because I know that the greater the risk I tolerate, the greater theRead More
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