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How to Increase Your Power Without Growth

The power you have to create the results you want in your work and life is defined by the difference you make in the time it takes you to make it. To reach our goals then, we typically focus on increasing our ability to make a difference. However, this does not necessarily increase our power.Read More

Three New Reasons to Take Action

Do you ever find it challenging to be in action, despite knowing the results you want to create in your life? Here are three new reasons to take action that you may not have considered before. 1) Your Learning Over-identifying with results can lead to procrastination. Switch your focus to the value of what youRead More

I Am That I Live By Asking and Listening

You can live by asking & listening. First, in the space of silence, stillness and sovereign presence, ask yourself what you would love. Second, listen to your heart. Listen to your intuition. Listen for God. Third, speak what you would love into the world. Make asks of other people as an expression of what youRead More

Complaints are Compliments

No complaint is ever really about you. Nor is any compliment. People speak what they see and they see what they are. However, the meaning we make of what people say does have impact on us. And people do complain. If you think about it though, complaints and compliments are actually one and the same.Read More

How to Help Too Many People

Do you ever experience overwhelm of too many people wanting your help? A client of mine was asking how I deal with this as they were hesitating to extend themselves more widely out of a worry that they wouldn’t be able to keep up with demand. The solution is simple. So simple you may haveRead More

The Power of Power

You want more power and that’s OK. Don’t resist it. And do not be ashamed of it. The desire for power is natural and good. Think of Gandhi and Martin Luther King – two super powers in Creating freedom, love and beauty in our world. In Physics, power is defined this way: Power = WorkRead More

Nothing You Feel is Real

The idea, popular in self-help culture, that everything we feel is real may at first be liberating, but inevitably it becomes a trap. The experiences of your past have collected within your body and predispose your neurology; everything you see and feel is experienced through this filter. The feelings of your past play out asRead More

If You Meet the Buddha on the Road, Kill Him

Through parental and societal conditioning, many people find themselves looking for the answers to their problems outside of themselves, and when they embark on a spiritual path they become either a seeker, or someone who is waiting to be saved. This weak spot is often abused by teachers and gurus, too willing to take advantageRead More

How I Create So Many Ideas

My ‘ABC’ rule is the foundation of my simple strategy to generate a constant stream of valuable ideas to share with others. A: Always B: Be C: Coaching Every new idea I come up with is born in dialogue. In fact, within every coaching conversation I have, multiple ideas are created. I take note ofRead More

Make More Money Than You Need

If you are making the money you need to survive, then what may be in the way of you making even more money is the idea that making more money than you need is not OK. Ask yourself the question formulated by Harvard psychologist Robert Keegan: “What would be your biggest worry if you DIDRead More