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‘I want you to be my coach someday’ is something I hear often. There are two problems with this. THE FIRST PROBLEM is the idea that typically sits behind it: ‘I don’t have enough money to hire the coach that can help me make more money.’ This catch-22 is a lie. There are two waysRead More

Even more important than your relationship, is your relationship to your relationship. This is your meta-relationship. Maintaining an idea of your relationship as strong and beautiful – seeing it as a positive aspect of your life – is a perspective always available to you. This perspective can be consciously chosen independently of anything that happensRead More

Successful entrepreneurs know the distinction of working ON your business vs IN yours business. They get that there is more leverage in growing a business by slowing down and taking time to look at and improve the overall strategy and internal operations of the business than there is in simply continuing on with everything, evenRead More

If something seems absurd to you, it is likely because you would judge yourself as absurd if you were to act that way. So behind any absurdity you see ‘out there’, sits the version of yourself that deep down you actually fear yourself to be. That’s not you though. That just who you fear youRead More

One of the ways I’ve learned how to be happy is to walk away from everything. For years during my 20’s I lived nomadically buying only one way tickets around the world, moving on any time I no longer felt happy. Without hesitation, I moved on from places, relationships and circumstances that no longer feltRead More

What is the difference between acknowledging and referencing the source of an idea? To reference is to state that your idea does not come from you. While it is beneficial for others to follow an idea back to its source, over-referencing often comes from a lack of confidence in one’s own work. Once an ideaRead More

When you say or do something that isn’t your ideal, how do you treat yourself? Do you judge yourself for your ‘shit’? If so, then I suggest you try loving your shit instead. When you look in the toilet at your actual shit, do you judge yourself? Of course not! You look in the toiletRead More

When you ask somebody if they want to buy something, you are asking them to consider that question based on their understanding of what you have to offer. If they say ‘no’, they are saying no to what they understand. What if instead of asking people to buy from you, you put your focus onRead More

Are you blocked or procrastinating in reaching your goals? Great! ? Failure to act on a goal is the perfect opportunity to understand what is happening outside of your awareness. It is a doorway to deep and purposeful self-creation. Look at your goal and ask yourself these two questions: 1) What it is that IRead More