Have you encountered the power of doing nothing? When you experience inner conflict, the natural response is to try to solve it. While a solution may help you get out of the problem, it will also inadvertently validate the conflict. The way to end a struggle completely is actually to be silent. To be still.Read More
Emotional discomfort when creating a new revenue stream, if not dealt with, will inevitably lead to procrastination. This is the simple physics of how your self-judgement actively keeps new revenue out. The way to keep out procrastination is to make emotional comfort your primary focus. Being at ease is how you keep going, perpetually andRead More
Do you intend to work on yourself but not take the action? If ‘yes’, then it may be as simple as the fact that it feels like work. I mean, who actually wants more work in their life? If ‘working on yourself’ feels like work, then even if you can force yourself to do it,Read More
Sometimes, desires conflict. Do not deny your conflicting desires. Acknowledge them. Next, get clear on what your values are surrounding these desires. Once you know that, simply prioritize the desires. For example, it matters more to me that I help you than whether or not you hire me. I am clear that helping you isRead More
To interrupt is an act of fear. To intervene is an act of love. The next time you feel apprehension at the idea of interrupting someone, look closely at it. See how your wanting to interrupt is actually a wanting to break, to rupture. Consider instead what it would be to intervene. For beneath theRead More
Today my wife Kalpna came into the kitchen, put her arms around me and began pouring a spirited flow of words into my ear. I don’t remember much of what she was saying as I was struck by her softness and lightness and outpouring of loving energy that I was more focused on that andRead More
Last night my wife and I were having a discussion about some things she was afraid of and the impact that was having on our relationship. I say ‘talking’, but to be honest it was more like I was challenging her and she was patiently entertaining me. We had just seen the new Bad BoysRead More
Beneath the surface of our awareness, there is a war being waged and it is directing most of our life. It is the shoddy foundation of our personality. Who we consciously think we are is merely the tip of the iceberg of who we actually are. In the depths of our subconscious, there are conflictingRead More
One way of combatting fear is to use the well-known philosophy ‘feel the fear and do it anyway’. While this can be pragmatic, it actually limits your power to create to utilizing the ‘fight’ response. This approach is fatiguing and also only fulfilling in the outcome (as relief) rather than inside the work itself. ConsiderRead More
Saying “I can’t afford it” creates circumstances where this is true. Your speaking generates a state of being that stops money from coming in. Your outer world matches your inner world. Instead, speak the words “I can afford it” (despite what’s in the bank) and then allow circumstances to rise to meet your speaking. ThereRead More
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