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If You Can See it You Can Be it

If you can see someone doing something you would love to do and feel that it is not possible for you to do it too, then I have some exciting news for you. Seeing a possibility is all that you need to access it. And you can only see what you already understand. So anythingRead More

Everything I Do I Do it For You

Your being ripples outwards indefinitely and creates the entire world. It affects not only the people in your immediate sphere of influence but also the people they interact with, and who those people influence and on and on. Every moment of your life – every decision you make and action you take – is consequentialRead More

How to Stand for Something – Be Unfuckwithable

If another’s words or actions affect you in such a way that you have no choice but to react, then you are fuckwithable. To be unfuckwithable, then, is to have choice in how you react. When you are unfuckwithable, you can respond freely. When you can respond freely, you can stand for something. To beRead More

Receive the Gift of Insomnia

Waking at night is one method the subconscious uses to bubble issues to the surface of your awareness to complete their processing. Insomnia – a chronic pattern of wakefulness at night – is in fact indicative of your chronic avoidance of an issue that is causing you to wake. When you are wakeful at night,Read More

Break the Rules

We are culturally conditioned to believe that breaking rules is an existential threat. But until we break a rule, there is no possibility for us outside of the world of the rules we live in. To live as a creative force in your life, find the rules that you are living by without realizing, andRead More

Become What You Hate

You are what you HATE in other people. (If ‘hate’ is too strong a word for you, then your aversion is even stronger evidence that the following applies to you.) Yes, even those political leaders you despise. You ARE that. You hate it because it is NOT OK for them to do it. It’s NOTRead More

Accepting is Not Giving – In

Accepting something that you do not want may contain wisdom, but if in your acceptance you suppress something that matters to you, then it will actually serve to imprison you rather than give you freedom. Your desire is your potential to express your unique self. Suppressing this innate and authentic energy undermines your capacity toRead More

Best Tech for Quarantine With Kids

Are you finding it difficult to focus on creating your life and your business now that you are quarantined with noisy kids, or the intrusive sounds of family members or housemates? The one piece of ‘tech’ I now can’t live without is… ear plugs! Earplugs not only mute external sounds, they also make the internalRead More

Where is Someday?

The word ‘someday’ usually sucks. I say usually, because most of the time people use this word as a way of abdicating their power to create. They might say they are ‘going with the flow’, but they are essentially a leaf in the wind. I call this ‘Weak Uncertainty’. In rare cases, some people willRead More

Be Your Monetary Value

If you work in a service based industry, then as important as believing in the value of your offering, is believing in a specific and financially measurable value of your work. The greater the specificity you bring to this value, the more possible it is for future clients to see your value in this way.Read More